Need to meet singles and not on line?

for sum strange reason every guy that i meet and like is ether taken and just wants to **** or single but not into the relationship thing im not really looking for a relationship but it would be nice to meet sum one who at lest wants to spend time with me and not just for the ..... may be its cuz i really only like older guys like 30-40 wud ever the reason this ill call u when i want sum *** kinda thing is getting old.............any suggestions on were i can meet a wider selection of men how are hopefully single?? im 21 by the by. and yes im a chick i know my profile pic says other whys...............long story....lol